Houston Matchmakers Reveal Signs He’s Not in Love with You

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Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean that you’re both going to love each other. Sometimes there will be people who will walk into your life and they are going to stay there for a short period of time. They just find you to be somewhat convenient to be with for a while – and once they’re through with you, they’re going to leave you high and dry.  And that’s not necessarily something that you’re going to want to put up with. When you get into a relationship with someone, you always want it to be real and steady before you invest yourself to it. Otherwise, you’re only going to end up with a broken heart.

You aren’t getting any younger and you no longer want to waste your time with men who aren’t serious about dating. You want a real and meaningful relationship that you can really build on and create a future together. And that all starts with being able to find the right guy. If you notice that your boyfriend is far too distant and rather cold in your relationship, then that’s definitely a huge red flag for you.

Today, our Houston matchmakers are going to show you the signs your boyfriend is not in love with you. After all, it’s only fair you find out now before you waste any more time on him.

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1. He only knows the shallow things about you.

He only ever really scratches the surface with you. He doesn’t really try to get to know you on a deeper level. It’s either he’s afraid of getting emotionally deep with you, or just he doesn’t care. Either way, it’s bad news for you. A man who really loves you will have no problem getting to know you on a deeper level and will want to connect in a more meaningful way.

2. He doesn’t open up about himself.

He doesn’t open up about himself to you. He doesn’t want to make himself vulnerable. And the reason is simply because he doesn’t think you’re worth it. Wow, that hurts. But it’s not your fault. He doesn’t want to make himself look weak with you because he doesn’t think you’re worth taking a risk. He is just going to want to keep to himself and shut you out. He might not be emotionally mature enough to handle making himself vulnerable to you – or anyone for that matter.

3. He doesn’t show affection.

He doesn’t show you any type of affection. You are merely an accessory for him. He isn’t emotionally investing himself in you, which clearly shows in the way that he treats you. He doesn’t act like he’s in love with you because he really isn’t. If a guy is in love with you, he will shows acts of kindness and affection. Even if he’s not physically affectionate, he will do nice things for you that show his love.

4. He acts busy all the time.

He doesn’t really spend a lot of time on you or the relationship. We only devote time to things we find important in life. And since this relationship isn’t important to him, he doesn’t devote any time to it. And you know you deserve much more than this.

5. He doesn’t integrate you to his circle.

He knows it would be pointless to introduce you to his friends and family since he is eventually going to dump you. He doesn’t consider you to be an important part of his life, and that’s why he’s hesitant about integrating you into his social circle.

If after reading this dating article you realize your guy doesn’t really love you – or worse, see you as a priority in life, then stop wasting your time on him. You deserve someone who will love you the way you deserve.

If you’re single and tired of meeting men who aren’t serious about dating contact our Houston matchmakers today and let us help you find true love.

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