Houston Matchmakers Reveal Signs He’s Not Interested in You

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It’s all too easy to read too much into your interaction with a guy you’re head over heels for, and you might actually convince yourself that he’s also head over heels for you when in reality he’s not.

Today, our Houston matchmakers are going to show you signs he’s not interested in you in a romantic way.

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1. He doesn’t make it easy to get to know him.

This shouldn’t be a one-way street. If he never responds or puts in the slightest bit of effort, and it feels like you’re pulling teeth trying to make it work, he obviously doesn’t care about you. If he wants to get to know you and vice versa, he will be putting in efforts and time. He should be interested in what you have to say, and he should answer your questions with more than one-word answers.

2. He doesn’t make future plans with you.

We are not talking about long-term plans, like five-year plans – such as if he wants to have children or plans to live in the suburbs. If you haven’t seen him for days, and he doesn’t even bring up when he wants to see you again, he obviously doesn’t care about you. If he wants to spend time with you, he’ll figure out a way to make it work sooner rather than later.

3. PDAs don’t exist.

When a guy has his arm around you or holds your hand as you walk in the park, that’s a sign that he’s interested in you and wants everyone to know he’s your man. If your guy is trying to get as far away from you as possible in public places, he doesn’t want to be connected to you, and you deserve better than that.

4. He’s always busy.

Everyone’s busy in today’s hectic world. Between work, family, personal life, and trying to actually stay sane, it can be difficult to devote time to someone. Again, if he wants to see you, he will. No matter how busy his schedule is, he will make time for you if he cares for you. If he’s making excuses or giving you flaky reasons why he can’t see you, he doesn’t care about you.

5. He doesn’t ask you questions.

If you’re the only one carrying the conversation all the time, and he doesn’t asks you any questions, he doesn’t care about you. It really isn’t that hard to ask how your day was or what you got going on this weekend. It’s not mysterious or fascinating to not know anything about someone, it’s annoying and just plain rude. Honestly, it’s a clear sign that he doesn’t have feelings for you.

6. He disappears all the time.

He’s like this weird ghost that just pops up whenever he wants. One minute he’s there and the next he’s gone without a trace. Consistency isn’t this guy’s strong suit, but it totally would be if he was interested in you.

So how does this new guy in your life measure up? Is he worth your efforts, or is he just wasting your time? If you’re tired of meeting guys who aren’t serious about dating, it’s time you let our professional matchmakers do the matching for you.

If you’re single and want to meet relationship-minded men in Houston, contact our matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let our Houston matchmakers introduce you to quality local singles who are ready for the real deal in love.

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